rainlesshunk Posts:1 2007-04-15 04:05:14 |
Can i Get A penis reduction??? |
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| My wife and i have been together for almost 6 years and i get sex very rarly,she complains my penis is to thick, shes only 5ft and very Tight im 6,3 and unfortunatly to well hung,
I know i have met my life partner so im willing to have it reduced. this is a very sensative subject so please any real replys im not here to be abused or to be called a liar just to get friendly advice. Thank you thanks for all your genuine answers to the ass holes that were just plain rude i have reported your messages as abuse, i think i will definatly have to reconsider surgeory, Many thanks |
| gary241309 Posts:8 2007-04-15 04:08:11 |
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| Have you tried a stanley knife ? |
| charmedchiclet Posts:20 2007-04-15 04:08:19 |
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| No, you can't get a penis reduction. It would impede your ability to feel any sensations there. |
| sunnybums Posts:1 2007-04-15 04:08:47 |
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| i looked at the same thing a few years ago, it can be done but costs a fortune, it is also very painfull so i didnt bother in the end |
lis_sa Posts:9 2007-04-15 04:09:35 |
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| tell her she just has to handle it. |
| APRIL Posts:1 2007-04-15 04:09:37 |
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| sure you can get a penis reduction. just call a plastic surgeon and schedule a free consultation. |
| Matt24 Posts:1 2007-04-15 04:09:42 |
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| ok well first of all, are you asking me if its possible to get it reduced or if you should get it reduced?
Its a fairly simple procedure.. its even more simple to get it extended but anyway |
untanuta Posts:9 2007-04-15 04:10:01 |
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| ummmmm strange really when a babies has to come out of the same place, and thats alot bigger!!!
Perhaps she needs some relaxing techniques, lube, foreplay etc....i would seek medical opinion, she sounds like she is tensing up, i don't think a reduction would do you any favours sensation wise. Lucky lady if you ask me! |
| yorkshire Posts:14 2007-04-15 04:10:31 |
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| a lady can give birth and i'm sure your penis isnt as big as a baby,you need to be more tender,lubrication and foreplay,she should be wet enough to receive you bit by bit |
| mary s Posts:11 2007-04-15 04:10:51 |
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| It is OK as it is don't others agree? |
| kt Posts:2 2007-04-15 04:11:08 |
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| try your local gp and ask him he may be able to refer you to someone who deals with this...havent heard of anywhere myself only heard of place that increse size but i am sure you aint alone in your problem....have you tried different positions that might help... |
| straightener Posts:2 2007-04-15 04:11:23 |
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| There are currently no methods to downsize the penis. But foreplay is supposed to lubricate well the vaginal canal and so accomodate a penis of any size. |
| Pat M Posts:31 2007-04-15 04:11:33 |
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| It may be worth looking at another option,for your wife to do something,a woman can deliver a baby through there,so a vagina can stretch to amazing widths. |
| BlueMorphoButterfly Posts:1 2007-04-15 04:12:03 |
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| You wouldn't really need to get it reduced...it can't be done anyway.
Given the time, her vagina will widen, but sex has to be performed...otherwise, there is not much you can do... Truly it is an extremely awkward situation to be in...I'm sorry. Try using lubricants...they help alot as the insertion is the most painful and worst part. Sry did my best to help you... |
| larry B Posts:6 2007-04-15 04:12:11 |
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| Your not to big, 6 years she should be use to it, she needs to see a doctor and find out whats wrong with her, she may be using that excuse just so she dose not have to have sex,"I bet". |
| girl next door Posts:1 2007-04-15 04:12:41 |
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| I recently did some research on body image for a speech, and i found out about penis enlargments which cost between 11-13 thousand. From my knowlege if surgeons are able to perform enlargments, then i'm certainly sure they are able to reduce ur size. Embrace size, if your wife is quite tight help her to loosen up by using other parts, u can pleasure a women in other ways dont forget. But contact a surgeon or ur local gp becausethey can answer many of your questions.
Goodluck and embrace ur size..coz many would wish 2 be big, i hope u all the best 4 u and ur soul mate |
babyblues_752001 Posts:4 2007-04-15 04:13:07 |
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| Lucky you..lucky her....I think a reduction is quite a severe procedure to have done but I mean it is your call in the end. I don't know what you are both experiencing so its kinda hard (pardon the pun!!) to comment on it when I haven't lived it.....maybe you should get out there and talk to some medical professionals who can outline the pros and cons for you both, do your research and go from there.....it is a sensitive subject and I hope that you do get the right advice from the right people. Good luck to you! |
| SharonNF1 Posts:5 2007-04-15 04:13:39 |
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| Lucky you, if you have the surgery can you give whats left to my hubby. Alas he wasn't blessed there he was last in the queue |
| rn annie Posts:4 2007-04-15 04:14:23 |
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| Yes, you can. I remember reading a case a while back where a man had his replaced with either a big toe or a thumb. I honestly can't remember which. No I am not making this up.
Realistically though an online chat forum is not the place to get the best advice. You need to talk with your family doctor. There may be some positions that would be more comfortable for her or perhaps when you aren't fully erect. I wish you both the best of luck. |
| Cinna Posts:6 2007-04-15 04:14:47 |
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| i am sure that you probably can, but that seems really drastic to me.
The female anatomy can adjust to fit whatever it needs to, remember females can birth several pound babies. Perhaps her body doesn't produce enough lubrication...have you tried KY Jelly? Also, maybe you would like to try prolong forplay, that should help her get more ready... I think I would definitely try more options first. Remember surgery is SURGERY! And it all comes with great risk. Good luck.. |
| IAINTELLEN Posts:18 2007-04-15 04:16:55 |
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| I've never heard of a penis reduction. Probably too tricky, and way to may risks for law suits. The penis is made up of a spongy tissue, you start cutting away at it, and scar tissue is going to form. That could cause your penis to become quite disfigured. There's also the risk of nerve damage. You could end up with no feeling in your penis at all. I highly doubt you'll find any doctor to do it without a valid medical reason... like needing to have it amputated.
Maybe you should get your wife a dildo? Pick one that's a little larger than you. Even a woman of 5' can give birth vaginally. I don't care how big you are. I'd bet its head isn't as big as a baby's. Encourage her to use it regularly. Especially before penetration. The vagina is made up of some VERY elastic tissue. It'll stretch. |
| freedom4infinity Posts:2 2007-04-15 04:17:59 |
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| baby you cant possiably have met your life partner!!! a women whom truely loves a man accepts him the way he is and vs!!!! how can she say that to you???? i truely feel for you!!! dont you dare do anything so horrific to yourself!!! MOST woman like a large penis!!!! find someone whom loves you the way you are!!!!!good luck!!FREEDOM!!! |
| mum of 2 Posts:1 2007-04-15 04:21:07 |
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| the answer is not to have a penis reduction, try using more lubrication products before you have sex, also talk this thru with a doctor as there may be other solutions. |
| culooking2007 Posts:3 2007-04-15 04:24:03 |
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| Maybe your rushing things. Take your time with her. After time you should be able to handle you without any problems. After all a baby does manage to find it's way out of there and I'm sure you are no where near that big!
Many ladies would love to have that "problem" with their loved one. |
| Barb Outhere Posts:2 2007-04-15 04:24:43 |
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| Even if you are "well hung", the vagina is fairly elastic and should be able to accommodate you, barring the exceptional.
Having said that there is a possibility that if you have had uncomfortable sex with your wife that she is tense and therefore unable to relax enough to accommodate your size? Are you giving enough fore-play? Is there enough natural lubrication to make it comfortable? Are you waiting until she is ready before entering her? Also there are various positions which can limit the depth/angle of penetration, which might be more comfortable. Also does she feel that the only time you get close that you are only after sex? Is she comfortable with you in other ways? In all, have a gentle talk with her about how you feel and see if you two can't work something out. Perhaps sex that doesn't always involve penetration? As to a reduction, its possible but chances are there will be scarring and some loss of sensation. See a specialist doctor to get more info. ****As to those idiots who say that if a baby can come out of there - yes it can - but that hurts TOO. Mum of four. |
| Dan X Posts:2 2007-04-15 04:28:11 |
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| Such a procedure does exist, but I think it's pretty drastic and their are risks involved. If it's thinkness and not length that is the problem, I imagine the procedure becomes more complicated.
You may want to alter the kind of sex you are having, so as to decrease the depth of penetration. Missionary position, contrary to popular belief, give the man little control over the depth of penetration as he struggles with the coordination of keeping his body weight from crushing her while maintaining a pleasing rhythm. Doggie-style (forgive my juvinile terms but that is how it's most commonly refered to), despite its reputation for allowing the deepest penetration, allows you more complete control over the depth of entry. Also, do you have kids? If not, and you plan to, the problem might be alleviated. She may stretch enough during childbirth to accomidate you. If she can get over the conception, that is. |
| pain in the back Posts:162 2007-04-15 04:30:00 |
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| I was going to make fun of this like the first guy,sorry.I don't know if it is possible but,many things are possible nowadays don't think there is much chance of getting the information on Y A but,good luck anyway.The vagina is elastic enough for a baby to pass through so why not a big penis?It is just a thought. |
| wrestling_beast_cooper Posts:6 2007-04-15 05:25:32 |
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well sorry to say most girls like a hung guy well i have to say more u play with the pu$$y the wide er it gets so have sex moer often and finger her ,,,,,i had to finger my girl for like a month so i could finly get my penis in her so just play more  |
| briangimma Posts:2 2007-04-15 06:33:47 |
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| that's the biggest c*ck and bull story i've heard for a long time. |
| rustd2 Posts:35 2007-04-15 06:35:39 |
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| Try a pair of bolt cutters. It will hurt like h*ll but it is guaranteed to work. |
| tchin Posts:14 2007-04-15 06:50:52 |
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| well this is a problem i knew son one like you . he had to wear fome rings to limit his penitration. in your case the only thing is for the women to streaght there are devises for this or see a good DR.for this ider. |
| zodiaccyber Posts:28 2007-04-15 07:00:37 |
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| go slow and steady with lots of lub like KY, |
| Amy W Posts:2 2007-04-15 07:08:00 |
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| yee u can get one will be sore for a bit but will probs be worth it! i think its very nice your doing that for your wife! |
| angiem Posts:1 2007-04-15 11:35:45 |
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| women are built 2 have babies , so it should not matter how big u are, try 2 get your wife more relaxed and more aroused b4 u use it,,, |
| john h Posts:2 2007-04-15 12:36:27 |
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| I have never heard of a penile slimming operation, You need to use a lubricant such as KY jelly or Sylk, and make sure that you arouse your wife prior to intercourse. One thing you and your ought to remember is that the vagina will accomadate a babys head let alone your penis. |
| anne b Posts:2 2007-04-15 16:07:23 |
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| maybe you can as these days they seem to be able to do all sorts of things i would ask your gp.and one thing there are not many men that would do that you truly are a great guy for having thought for your wife i really wish you all the luck in the world.plus all you that saying can have a baby this is not the same thing at all ,sex and having baby two different things altogether. |
| Rosie Posts:3 2007-04-16 03:05:57 |
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| women can accomodate almost everything in there - the only thing is there needs to be a lot of foreplay going on b4 tht...try massage n things like tht..oh yeah another thing is u need to b slow on ur way in!!!!!
hope tht helps |
