pinky Posts:1 2007-04-29 02:29:06 |
Please suggest me how can i stop my boyfriend from smoking and drinking this create trouble in our relaionship |
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earlier he didn't told me anything even i asked him he said he is not habitual of these things in our early relationship he had forgive me for my past relationship so wot should i do now i m very loyal to him n its our long term relationship i hate smoke and drink i get vomit even on smell now days i m not talking to him but difficult to live without him although he is very loving and caring i cant allow him wot should i do help me ???? |
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| BundyGil Posts:12 2007-04-29 02:31:46 |
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| He drank and smoked before you met him. Now you want to change him. Typical. If you don't want him as he is, move on and let him be happy. |
| BRobb Posts:2 2007-04-29 02:31:48 |
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| lady, the honest truth is-
you cant. |
| mastcp Posts:1 2007-04-29 02:32:05 |
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| refuse to have sex with him until he quits |
Sandy M Posts:20 2007-04-29 02:32:09 |
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| You can't stop anyone from doing anything. If this is creating trouble in your relationship, you can certainly give him an ultimatum. It's either his smokes and drinks, or it's you. Be prepared, however, for whatever decision he makes. Remember never to ask a question or make a demand if you're not pretty damned sure what the answer is going to be.
Sandy |
| Joseph C Posts:1 2007-04-29 02:32:13 |
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| Have him check out fhu.com. However, you might want to get rid of him. |
| gordon r Posts:2 2007-04-29 02:33:25 |
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| why do women always do this..
he prob drank and smoked wen u met him...did he ever lie to u and say he didnt....if u like him then u should like leave him alone cos if u change him he wont be person u met... he will stop in his own time and its ur problem not his...so either accept it or move on...how would u feel if he told u stop wearing makeup or talkin to other men or sumthing equally unreasonable |
| tues d Posts:1 2007-04-29 02:33:33 |
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| Is this a serious relationship??? Long-term?
Just tell him... "It's me........ or booze and smoke" You will see what matters most to him.... If you really love him you may have to compromise....but so should he |
| Sir Posh Posts:1 2007-04-29 02:35:41 |
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| You should not try and make others do what you want.
If you must. Don't kiss after he smokes Don't hug when he drinks. Go home alone when he does both. You both may end up single, but making other do as you want will lead to this anyway. |
| love4_fcportugal Posts:2 2007-04-29 02:37:36 |
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| Hi, sorry you are having relationship troubles. However, it is unrealistic of you to expect him to change these very addictive habits for you. Chances are, he will not stop smoking and drinking. If it is not something he is ready to do, there is no way on earth that he will be able to - he has to want it for himself. You need to speak to him if you haven't already - tell him exactly how you feel and that it isn't something you want to be around. If he continues to do it, which be prepared because he probably will, then it will say what is more important to him. If it is something you really cannot handle, the best thing you can do is end the relationship and move on, making sure you keep your preferences in mind for your next relationship. I am sure you knew he smoked and drank when you got with him, but you got with him anyway so make sure that you don't make the same mistake next time.
Good luck. |
