wo235126 Posts:1 2007-04-29 00:55:00 |
help - penis too big for vagina? |
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| my bf and i had sex this weekend for the first time in 13 weeks as he's been in the army. Before he left, we had sex 4 the first time together as a sign of love and commitment - and as i was a virgin i bleed which is relatively normal. However, this weekend we did it again for the first time in ages and it really hurt - not just me but him as well - i think that my v is too small for his penis cause he was in so much pain putting it in and it even bleed on the head afterwards. Once he was in though, it was ok - well as ok as it could be!!
HELP!!! what can i do to make sure this doesnt happen again??????? |
| grannybce Posts:53 2007-04-29 00:58:38 |
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| use lube and more fore play before you do the act. |
| jigadee Posts:4 2007-04-29 00:58:46 |
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| when you start to have sex regulary it will be ok |
| parasmichal Posts:2 2007-04-29 01:02:31 |
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| a few more times and you will be fine! better tight, than one he can fall in.... |
| Josef P Posts:3 2007-04-29 01:02:31 |
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| There are plenty of lubricants on the market, over the counter that can ease the entrant and receipient. check them out with your pharmasist, Idon't think I spelled that right. but I hope you get the message, most pharmasists are more able to answer your concerns. |
| ajay Posts:3 2007-04-29 01:36:16 |
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| just stop masterbution and automatically it will come to normal size |
| seagull Posts:1 2007-04-29 02:26:00 |
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| try more foreplay. |
Aussie Posts:2 2007-04-29 02:26:18 |
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| well the first times guy having sex it happens with the penis because the blood flow will get fast into the penis vens n thats y it hurts when it goes in the small vagina, and i dont know about the vagina much |
| sammy-untamed Posts:3 2007-04-29 04:27:52 |
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| There are two good advices for you.....1. you should lube your vagina before sex and 2. during normal Intercourse (guy over you), put a pillow under your hips it will help your vagina to open up for taking the big penis of your boyfriend... when you come to a regualar practice.....everything will be smoothly done. |
| rustd2 Posts:35 2007-04-29 06:46:17 |
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| Well at least you are not asking how to make it bigger. Big should be handled carefully. You need to know that the physical opening is large enough for a baby to pass thru - therefore the problem right now is that your vagina is still very small. Your boyfriend and you can work this through however. Either one of you may want to experiment with some vaginal stretching exercises. One or two fingers to start. Concentrate on relaxing. Spread your legs well apart. Use a lubricant such as K-Y Jelly. When your boyfriend first enters you he needs to be very gentle. Definitely no real hard thrusts until you are ready to accept his full manhood - which you will be able to do in a few weeks. If you will be separated again for a long period you need to continue with the stretching exercises - which could lead to you masturbating which in itself is not bad either. Just be sure your b/f understands that it is you practicing and not having someone else stretching your vagina. Let him know you are doing it for him. You can do it. |
| kaksi_guy Posts:2 2007-04-29 07:33:21 |
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| ☼ I wonder whom you advertise here yourself or your guy? Both I think; |
| i walk with Jesus Posts:4 2007-04-29 09:08:57 |
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| well supposedly the v only bleed the first time a virgin has sex so it shouldnt bleed anymore |
| itsmyitch Posts:2 2007-04-29 09:11:21 |
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| Sleeping around made my wife sort of sloppy. You could give that a try.
That's how I first noticed my (now ex) wife's indiscretions. |
| kissie Posts:1 2007-04-29 11:49:12 |
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| Too big? NEVER! Sounds like more foreplay is in order here. Skip the K-Y and explore each other. |
